Was it too long since you have broken up with your
trans woman girlfriend or gentleman? Are you still considering that perhaps you are good together? Maybe, you think coming back to what hurt you is still possible but don’t you want to give yourself a chance to start something new? The past can come back but you don’t know that. There’s no assurance and are you willing to take that risk just to save yourself for someone who might not be there at the end of the road? You should meet new
transgender people and give yourself a chance to meet and get to know people You never know, the one might just be a message away.
