It is chanllenging to turst a new person if you've been hurt in the past relationships. It is commonly know that transgender people are easy to hurt by their trans dating partners. However, you cannot start a new relationship with a new person if you cannot trust him/her.
Here are some tips on how to cultivating turst for transgender people and other people who are dating transgender people.
1. Do as what you say
No matter how many people you've date, only one person will lasting the long term relationship with you. If you want to be a reliable partner, do as what you say, this is important in all relationships. Even if you are in a new relationship and a new stage, it is necessary to be honest and do as what you say. What kind of relationship you will have depends on what's your attitude to your partner and the relationship. The first step of building a new relationship is to show your partner that you trust him/her, and you can be trusted.
2. Be yourself
We all know that not all relationship are full of sunshine. Don't make your partner feel that you are not easy to be cheer and happy. If there are something unhappy, express to your partner. If there are something happy in your life, share it with your partner. If your partner ask your advice when meeting some difficulties, give your advice. You don't need to stay with something unhappy or something you are not comfortable with. In all relationships, everyone should be honest.
3. Be open
If you want to have a intimate relationship with your partner, you should be open and share your life with your partner. However, the step should be slow. As safety is often of great importance for transgender people, don't invite a someone to your home, or date in private space when you first meet each other. It is not easy to have a serious relationship with someone. It is a slow process in which both you and your partner need to be careful maintain.
4. Let everything go
Everyone of us comes with the past relationships. Some cannot forget the past relationships even they are in a new relationship. Let everything go, it is time to start a new life. It is easier to say than do, but this is a necessary step t start a new relationship. You need to give yourself a new chance to meet and tranny date a new person, the best way to forget the past relationship is to start a new relationship.
5. You are a woman
This tip is for transgender women. Always remember that you are a real woman, but you are not perfect. Don't expect to meet a perfect guy. People who are looking for serious relationship will do their best, so never ask for too much in a relationship.